for a friend..

recently a friend of mine was going through a really rough time. i dont know the details but as a friend i was asked to write a note of encouragement:

My dear friend,

First off, your not alone!! Whether or not the people around you know what your going through, or can even relate though what your going through, there will always be someone who will pray for/with you. No matter what God always knows what your going through (Heb. 4:13). Its NOT helpless. You deserve God's love (Psalm 25:3). It's easy to feel lost sometimes but just remember to look to His word for guidance, He is the one to look to when you need strength (Ps.27:1). Your family, friends, and church family all love you very much! There may be some times where you want to question God because you are confused, lost, distressed, overwhelmed...whatever you may be feeling, take a deep breath and just trust in God. He loves you so much, and knows whats going on. It may be hard to accept things that cannot be changed, but you get a fresh start every day! We all love you so much!

-Erin (Isaiah 41:10)

the reason im sharing this is because its not only a note to a friend, but also can be for myself. there are so many times when i need to just sit back and trust in God rather than be stressed, overwhelmed, or freaking out because i dont know what to do next. my grandmom has this quote on her wall at home, and its something that now constantly runs though my mind:

"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things that I can change,
and wisdom to know the difference."